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Leadership Lesson 11 – It’s Their Job, Not Yours

Why Do Some Leaders Get More Done — Without Burning Out or Micromanaging?

Have you ever noticed how some leaders manage to squeeze out way more from their teams — all while seeming to have plenty of time to breathe? It’s not magic or luck. The secret is simple: They know their role and they trust their team to own theirs.

When leaders try to control every little detail, things quickly unravel. Top performers hate being micromanaged. Nothing kills creativity and motivation faster than a boss who’s constantly breathing down their neck.


Lessons from the Trenches at Caterpillar

Early in my career at Caterpillar, I learned this lesson the hard way. I was a research analyst, responsible for the mathematical models powering our inventory management system. Sounds dry, right? But here’s the kicker: I owned the theory and the IT team owned the implementation.

One day, after crunching data and improving the model, I dove into the code myself, tweaked it, and proudly presented my “wrapped package” to my boss. His smile told me I was off track.

“Curt,” he said, “that’s great work — but this isn’t how we do changes. You just tell the IT analyst what you want, and they make it happen.”

I was skeptical but gave it a shot. I handed the request to Dave, the IT analyst. He got it done effortlessly. From that moment, I leaned on Dave more and more.


The Power of Trust — And the Danger of Micromanagement

One time, stuck on a tricky problem, I went to Dave for help. He listened, understood, and admitted it was tough. I shrugged it off, thinking, “Well, that’s a lost cause.”

Two days later, Dave called me over. He had figured out a clever workaround — without me telling him what to do. I was floored. “Can we implement this?” I asked. He smiled, “I already have.”

That experience taught me:

  • Micromanaging screams, “I don’t trust you.”

  • It tells your team, “I’m better than you.”

  • It encourages them to slack off, knowing you’ll just fix it yourself.

  • It kills any sense of ownership or pride in the work.

Sound familiar? If so, it’s time to rethink your leadership style.


Rule #11: Micromanaging Is the Deadliest Sin for a Manager

Had I dictated every detail to Dave, he would never have come up with his brilliant fix. By trusting him, I unlocked creativity and ownership that grew stronger every day. When the real challenges hit, Dave was ready — with solutions, not excuses.


Action Item #11: Stop Micromanaging — Starting Now

For the next week, try this:

Instead of telling your team how to do things, say:
“John, I’ve got situation ‘A’ and I’m hoping you can handle it.”

If they start asking questions that drag you into micromanagement territory, respond with:
“I have full confidence you’ll make the right choice. When you have a solution, let’s review it together.”

Then walk away.

You’ll be amazed at how your team steps up — and how much more time you suddenly have.


Leadership isn’t about control. It’s about trust, clarity, and letting the right people do what they do best.

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